You Can't Control Their Addiction—
But You Can Stop It From Controlling Your Family
Download Breaking Free
From Addiction
A transformative family survival guide that will change the way you see addiction and help you understand what keeps the addiction cycle going. Set healthier boundaries and respond in ways that actually move your loved one closer towards lasting recovery... Even if they are resistant to change!
Are You Sick and Tired of Living in Chaos?
You love them. You have tried to help them. You may have paid their bills, fixed their problems, covered their consequences, found treatment programs, and given them chance after chance but, nothing seems to create lasting change.
Now you are exhausted. You are walking on eggshells, losing sleep, blaming yourself,
and constantly wondering:
'Am I helping the addiction to continue'?
You are not a bad parent, spouse, or family member. You simply may not have been
taught what to do when addiction entered your home.
This free guide will help you begin replacing
fear, guilt, and reactionary decisions with
clear, practical recovery strategies.
Learn the proven recovery strategies that have transformed 100's of families & 1000's of addicts who thought they'd "tried everything"
You've cried the tears
Blamed yourself
Paid their bills, legal fees, rents, etc...
Stopped taking care-of yourself
Expecting "The Call" any day now
Absorbed their consequences
Prayed for their arrest just to be off the streets
Believed their promises to quit drinking/using
Non-stop conflict
Have become exhausted
Wondered when your adult spouse will grow up
Wondered when your adult child will grow up
Feel Gas-Lit and manipulated
Discover what works
even if your loved-one is resistant!
The Difference Between
Help and Relief
Relief makes the immediate problem or uncomfortable feeling go away. Real help supports the behaviors that lead toward recovery.
The False Beliefs That
Keep Families Trapped
Learn why loving more, rescuing faster, and waiting for things to calm down often fail to create the change families desperately want.
How to Use Boundaries Without Abandoning Your Loved-one
Healthy boundaries are not punishment, rejection, or disconnection. They protect your family while allowing your loved one to experience the consequences that can motivate change.
How to Stop Reacting
and Start Responding
Discover how fear, anger, guilt, and anxiety can drive decisions—and how to slow the chaos down and make choices based on your values.
Why Getting Sober Is
Only the Beginning
Lasting recovery requires more than temporarily stopping drugs or alcohol. It requires new thinking, healthier behaviors, emotional growth, structure, and support.
Where Your Family’s
Recovery Can Begin
Your loved one may not be ready to change today—but you can begin changing how addiction operates within your family.
This Guide Is for You If…
You are a Parent, Spouse, Grandparent, Adult Child who loves an addict/alcoholic
You are constantly worried about what will happen next.
You cannot tell whether you are helping or enabling.
Your family has tried treatment, but recovery keeps falling apart.
You feel guilty when you say no.
You are afraid that setting boundaries will push your loved one away.
You feel responsible for keeping everything from falling apart.
You are ready for practical strategies—not another quick fix.
You want hope, peace, and a clearer way forward.
Your Family’s First Step Shouldn't Be Controlling Your Loved One
It's Learning How to Stop Addiction
From Controlling Everyone Else!
You cannot force another person to recover. However, when families change their responses,
stop absorbing every consequence, and begin using healthy boundaries, the addiction no longer has the same freedom to control the home.
Learn how to offer help without providing
relief which only keeps the addiction comfortable.
Begin by taking care of yourself without giving up on the person you love, and then stop making every decision from fear.
DISCOVER WHAT MAINSTREAM ADDICTION
TREATMENTS DON'T WANT YOU TO KNOW!
Get It Free Today!
Breaking Free from Addiction- Family Survival Guide
For family members who believe they've tried "everything", to help your loved one find recovery but nothing seems to last
Taken directly from our 20+year addiction program that has transformed 100's of families and 1000's of addicts/alcoholics.
Meet Dr. Miles and Tina Lewis
Founders of Justin’s Lighthouse Recovery
Miles and Tina Lewis developed Justin’s Lighthouse Recovery after the overdose death of Miles’ younger brother, who died only weeks after graduating from a short-term addiction treatment program. After an in-depth study of the treatment industry to determine how anyone could die shortly after being discharged, they learned that mainstream treatment isn't designed to affect lasting change, but rather, to simply stabilize the patient and send them home. Many overdose deaths occur shortly after leaving a short-term clinical treatment facility because the patient isn't equipped to be back "in the real world". The patient "graduates" with high hopes only to return to old behaviors, sometimes very quickly.
Strange as it sounds, many mainstream treatments do not follow the latest addiction research. If they did, they would lose their repeat customers!
As a couple in long-term recovery, themselves, Miles and Tina have skin in the game and a passion to teach families the right strategies for achieving recovery. They have spent more than 20 years implementing these strategies with much success. Real solutions that move the patient (and their family) through a much deeper and more complete process towards lasting change. Far beyond traditional treatments.
Their approach combines behavioral science, addiction education, lived experience, healthy accountability, trauma healing, practical family strategies, and spiritual principles.
Miles and Tina are hands-on! They don't hide in an office while staff members work directly with the clients. They are on the front lines of the addiction battle and conduct 100% of their therapeutic process. This has given them a front row seat to the pain, fears, and hopes of families of addiction, for over 2 decades. They know what strategies work and which ones don't.
They don't teach families to abandon their loved ones. They coach families how to stop reacting, establish boundaries, support real recovery, and begin healing themselves.
All the information in this ebook is taken directly from Justin's Lighthouse daily program-curriculum that is proven to get results when followed.
When families start doing things differently, the addict usually follows.
“Recovery isn't a '"Maybe' thing, you just have to follow the right strategies" (Dr. Miles & Tina)
Frequently Asked Questions
Please Reach out if you have any questions
that aren't on this list
Is the guide really free?
Yes. Enter your information at download and you will receive your e-book immediately
Is this only for parents and spouses?
No. This guide is for parents, spouses, siblings, adult children, and anyone who loves someone struggling with addiction. This e-book can also be helpful for the individual who is struggling with substance abuse. A section of the e-book offers helpful information to the addict/alcoholic.
Will this teach me how to force my loved one into recovery?
No one can guarantee or force another person to change. This guide will help you understand what you can control, stop repeating strategies that are not working, and respond in ways that better support recovery. Experience has shown that when families change the way they respond to their addict /loved one, the addict will usually accept help (80-90% of the time). This can take time since the addict is accustomed to being rescued, so the families must be diligent in practicing new strategies and remain consistent.
Do I have to disconnect from my loved one?
No. Justin’s Lighthouse does not teach automatic disconnection. The guide explains how healthy boundaries can protect your family while keeping the door open to real help.
What if my loved one has already been through treatment?
Your family is exactly where these strategies work best!
The primary reason the addict continues to struggle is because real change has not occurred. If previous treatments have failed to create lasting change it explains why sobriety is only the beginning and why recovery must address thinking, behavior, emotions, structure, and family patterns. Our average client has participated in at least 3 treatments prior to finding our program. Only 3 clients over 20 years has ever required more treatment after graduating Justin's Lighthouse. Of those, they were allowed to return to our program and they took it much more seriously, and are now successful!
Testimonials
"I’ve never heard anyone present addiction in this way. I’ve been to a lot of treatments and nobody goes this deep. I look forward to bringing my daughter to groups. It has allowed her to heal also!”
“I just want to say Justin’s Lighthouse changed my life and everything I was going through. I was addicted to meth, got into trouble, then found Justin’s Lighthouse. God was there for me too. I prayed when I first got there for him to help me with my mess The owners, Miles and Tina Lewis, are the sweetest people, and I owe so much to them helping me getting me off drugs. I couldn't believe they were willing to spend so much time with my family to help them also"
Justin’s Lighthouse changed my life, For the best!! Tina and Miles picked me up from East Baton Rouge Parish Prison March of 2019. I was addicted to heroin. No one had faith in me. Not even my family. But, they did! They educated me on the disease. But more importantly, they loved me until I loved myself Today, I have a job that I used to think I didn’t deserve. People trust me. I now have family that I talk to frequently. This all became possible because I listened to what they had to say. This journey has not been easy but well worth it!
You Do Not Have
to Keep Guessing What to Do
Get the practical family recovery guide that will help you slow down the chaos, understand the addiction cycle, and take your first steps toward peace.
Your loved one’s addiction has taken enough from
your family. It does not get to control every
decision, every conversation, or every day of your life.
What successful families say...
Justin's Lighthouse, Dr. Lewis, and Tina Lewis, have saved my son's life. He is on the road to recovery and a new life thanks to their work with him. I cannot thank them enough or recommend them more highly.
We're been through many rehabs with our son and you are the first person in a recovery center to explain recovery in a systematic way that makes sense... I think of other places as a waste of time”
"I've been in therapy in Beverly Hills since I was 17yrs old. In one hour Dr. Miles explained to me what no other therapist could teach me over my 24 year period of being in and out of treatments. I was blown away by how they know exactly what is wrong and how to fix it"
Loving Them Without
Losing Yourself
In this FREE GUIDE
You Will Discover
Immediate steps you can take to move your whole family closer towards recovery, even if the addict is resistant!
Stop living in crisis and start Responding with new strategies that work!
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